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Graemereeper



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Wozz wrote:
Jonny Fresh wrote:
Child maintenance is 15% of your income for 1 child.


You're a bit out there Jonny. CSA has always been able to take up to 30% of your net income if you are a non resident parent!!!! This based on the pre-existing and convoluted calculations they have for raping your bank account. Usually the 30% rule below only pulls someones contribution down to that level rather than raising it!

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30% Rule
The 30% rule says that no non-resident parent should pay more than 30% of his net pay by way of child support.



30% is the old rule, pre dinosaurs.
The rule is now 15% of your income which can vary by how much time your child/ren spend with you.

As stated before it's much better to try and arrange payments with your ex as the CSA are a bunch of scum sucking pond dwellers who couldn't arrange their own sock drawer! IMHO Whistle 4.4i V8 HSE G4 RRS.

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Graemereeper wrote:


As stated before it's much better to try and arrange payments with your ex as the CSA are a bunch of scum sucking pond dwellers who couldn't arrange their own sock drawer! IMHO Whistle

When the kids stay with you, the male partner, the CSA are not geared for it when the wife and I first seperated and I got the paper work through it was all printed Dear Miss/ Madam Shocked it took years to get sorted out Sons of dogs come hither and get flesh
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As stated before it's much better to try and arrange payments with your ex as the CSA are a bunch of scum sucking pond dwellers who couldn't arrange their own sock drawer! IMHO Whistle


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Crying or Very sad
Sorry to hear of your woes Jonty.

Been there twice before myself. Only once were kids involved. I was left paying the ex enough money to buy a HSE Disco3 over 5 years, outright. ( I did once finnished with the CSA)

Apart from the CSA everything else, in both divvy's, was done by concilliation.

Just payed the stamp duty fees & other (small) court costs (1/2 & 1/2). Done with a smile on our faces and a bottle of bubbly after to celebrate.

I did not want to divert showering my ex with money to showering lawyers with money. I just wanted to turn off the tap.

If you can come to an agreement that both sides are happy and secure with, and the needs of your Lad are looked after, go for it. Your Clerk of your local Family Court should be able to guide you toward the legal formalities.
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Not A Red RRS. wrote:
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Sorry to hear of your woes Jonty.

I did not want to divert showering my ex with money to showering lawyers with money. I just wanted to turn off the tap.

If you can come to an agreement that both sides are happy and secure with, and the needs of your Lad are looked after, go for it. Your Clerk of your local Family Court should be able to guide you toward the legal formalities.
Best of luck mate. Thumbs Up
My wife went through a divorce recently here in Belgium, first they both went to a solicitor and drew up an agreement of 50/50 and a little maintanence for the 2 kids still at home. But on the day of signing my wife's ex took a advocat on the advice of his brothers and he submitted a counter offer of €10k and €50 per kid per month. From that it got nasty and as there has to be a guilty party they both had to prove the other guilty, after a few years and many court appearencies there was a change in the law so a non fault settlement could be made. It cost my wife €25k in advocat fees just to end up back at the same settlement that was drawen up at the solicitors all those years ago. The wife's ex looks at it as a win because that was €50k he didn't have to pay to his wife and kids. My wife is still traumatised by the affair. The wife's older kids were great through the whole divorce in their support for her. That all made my divorce seem so easy. Sons of dogs come hither and get flesh
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Sorry to hear your bad news.

Close friend has just been throgh something similar with a right thick bitch..... Taken a while to sort. You need to get legal advice immediately even if you do not require the services of the Solicitor in the long run. Better get the facts right to start with.

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